We humans always want it to be simple...ie.everything has to be done in simple way! We find ease in letting things go rather letting people go off our lives when we think they arent matching or running parallel with our thoughts.
I wouldn't be surprised if tomorrow our country is competing with western countries Divorce rates! "Impatience", "Misunderstandings", "Assumptions", "I AM RIGHT ATTITUDE", "ME", "I".... !! Where do we think the world will lead to if these are the words put in use often.
Would like to share a story...
There was a couple (still exist..😊) who were poles apart...both loved each other but both were hurt due to each other cz of some reasons. Reasons are many if they wanted to break up. And solutions are many if they wanted to stay together.
Easy way to get rid of all the hurt and suffering is to cut the person down. Another way is to scratch your brain and think of all the ways that can lead to a happy ending or rather a happy beginning. They selected the route two and stayed happily ever after. LOVE was their key now.
But the other couple selected the route one. One amongst them broke off. Both remained hurt..they thought it would be easy to move on. But soon realised that its very difficult to move on with some one esle with the same purity and same level of love. But they found it apt 'cz they felt they had lot of difference's.They didnt even attempt to work it out. No communication..no discussion oriented towards how to mend things. Both entered a new relation..initial years were great and again there was a downfall. Now each of them felt wish i would have worked on my earlier relation though it would have taken time to mend things it could have been sorted as each one of us knew about each others plus and minuses'. They lived happily ever after adjusting their lives to each others needs and requirements in a hope that things will be as great as earlier. HOPE was their key to life now.
Point here is...nothing is permanent in life except change. The former couple accepted their mistakes.. Learned from the downfalls they had and supported each other in their goin forward. Both were aware about each others short comings and strengths...goin forward they never had to utilise their time in understanding each other rather they had to utilize it for execution of full proof plan.
The couple in the latter part failed to realise that same issues can be repeated moving forward. The found an easy way out but got caught in same trap again with nothing in hand but to adjust with each other as they were married. They had an option of divorce but that would have put a dark spot on their image in society. So a known devil is better than an unknown. Hehe.
To conclude i will say is as the product has a life cycles so does the relation. It goes from embryo stage to full maturity...and then it loses its share. So either change the product or keep
upgrading same adding some innovative features into it. Ex.Sony TV..came with LCD's..saw a downturn..upgraded to LED..then Bravia..then Bravia X-Reality..then Triluminous display..! But still they are Sony TV..! Lame example it may seem but if u relate well to your life then very useful too. Relation too needs constant upgradation at its every maturity phase. Dont let it off your hands. Finally its all about your love and for your love. This effort is trifle. Make your relationship so strong that it sustains heaviest of the blow. That's when you can say you ever had loved some one truly.
-Its SR
check the link: A good article on how todays generation goofs up dating as they are themselves confused with love and infatuation.
http://www.scoopwhoop.com/inothernews/we-are-doing-it-wrong-yo/
I wouldn't be surprised if tomorrow our country is competing with western countries Divorce rates! "Impatience", "Misunderstandings", "Assumptions", "I AM RIGHT ATTITUDE", "ME", "I".... !! Where do we think the world will lead to if these are the words put in use often.
Would like to share a story...
There was a couple (still exist..😊) who were poles apart...both loved each other but both were hurt due to each other cz of some reasons. Reasons are many if they wanted to break up. And solutions are many if they wanted to stay together.
Easy way to get rid of all the hurt and suffering is to cut the person down. Another way is to scratch your brain and think of all the ways that can lead to a happy ending or rather a happy beginning. They selected the route two and stayed happily ever after. LOVE was their key now.
But the other couple selected the route one. One amongst them broke off. Both remained hurt..they thought it would be easy to move on. But soon realised that its very difficult to move on with some one esle with the same purity and same level of love. But they found it apt 'cz they felt they had lot of difference's.They didnt even attempt to work it out. No communication..no discussion oriented towards how to mend things. Both entered a new relation..initial years were great and again there was a downfall. Now each of them felt wish i would have worked on my earlier relation though it would have taken time to mend things it could have been sorted as each one of us knew about each others plus and minuses'. They lived happily ever after adjusting their lives to each others needs and requirements in a hope that things will be as great as earlier. HOPE was their key to life now.
Point here is...nothing is permanent in life except change. The former couple accepted their mistakes.. Learned from the downfalls they had and supported each other in their goin forward. Both were aware about each others short comings and strengths...goin forward they never had to utilise their time in understanding each other rather they had to utilize it for execution of full proof plan.
The couple in the latter part failed to realise that same issues can be repeated moving forward. The found an easy way out but got caught in same trap again with nothing in hand but to adjust with each other as they were married. They had an option of divorce but that would have put a dark spot on their image in society. So a known devil is better than an unknown. Hehe.
To conclude i will say is as the product has a life cycles so does the relation. It goes from embryo stage to full maturity...and then it loses its share. So either change the product or keep
upgrading same adding some innovative features into it. Ex.Sony TV..came with LCD's..saw a downturn..upgraded to LED..then Bravia..then Bravia X-Reality..then Triluminous display..! But still they are Sony TV..! Lame example it may seem but if u relate well to your life then very useful too. Relation too needs constant upgradation at its every maturity phase. Dont let it off your hands. Finally its all about your love and for your love. This effort is trifle. Make your relationship so strong that it sustains heaviest of the blow. That's when you can say you ever had loved some one truly.
-Its SR
check the link: A good article on how todays generation goofs up dating as they are themselves confused with love and infatuation.
http://www.scoopwhoop.com/inothernews/we-are-doing-it-wrong-yo/
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