The Wedding Food!!

The grand pandal..

And the palatial 'Shamiyana'.. 

Colourful and dancing fountains..

DJ adding to the score...

Bright and lit ambiance..

And…With the Grandeur of the entire couture..

Off all…

I wondered, how the food...

for this wedding will be!!!

Nostrils already had the feel...

B'cz aura was spread all around..

Taste buds were dangling 

And hunger was startling..!

Name a cuisine and they have it..
Or at least it felt so to me!


I was not much into appraising
the beauty of the people..
But -
when will i'v the share into food!
though a little...!

I had to wait and wait...
for an entire night to pass...
infact i was half asleep...
but back was I..
when i heard sound of small wagon..
carrying tons of waste food ...to the dump..
I looked at my plates..and wondered
how will i fill all that into these..!!


After dusting them with my torn tee..
I peeped out of my broken window...
And my heart was filled with joy..
When I Saw tons of 'fresh' food dumped into the bin..!!

It was mixture of all cusines..
But a feast and a treat
for all my brothers and me..!

I wish i had a cool store..
Then We wouldn't have starved for a few days more..!

Alas..! This is how life is...
One who gets..doesn't value the importance of it...
And one who craves...can only dream for it..!

A wasted drug..or a wasted food..
Is either for rich or poor..
But one is classy and other is filth..!!

O Gracious heart!!
...you listen..
Dont.. Dont you waste..
The fuel of life please
and a dream of millions..
Which can never be borrowed or leased..!


-Its SR...!

02/12/2015

Nahi Raha jata...tum bin !!

Nahi tumse koi shikva hume..
Nahi koi ummeede...
Par iss kadar na modo hume..
Ki humare pyaar pe shuck hone lage hume...!


Dil ki kuch baate hai...dil hi ye jaane hai...
Shabdon se bayan na kar paye shayad...
Par aankhon ne kar li hai inayat.


Aab auur kitne sitam sahe hum..
Maut se na dare jitna...
Pyaar se lage hai daar..

Tumse duur rahne ki dhundi vajha..
par nahi sahi jaati ye sajha..


Aab tum hi toh ho mere humsafar...
Chahe saath do ya na do..
Hum to ji lenge tumhari yaad main jindagi bhaar..!


-Its SR
Love...

Akher Tyacha Shikar Jhala...!!

Premat gumfile tyala ka..?
Saath sodaychi hoti jevha..!
Premat ahe he janvun dilas
Pan premachya parikshet matra
Ekta sodlas..

Hazar goud athvanin na visrun
Eka chuka payi dilas baalli tyacha..!
Tumhi nehmi kela achuk..
Ase tumhi jaaple far..!
Haach dhyas thevuni aaj..
Kiti kasavis hota toh
He visarlat tumhi paar!


Evdhe varsha thambla toh..
Maan milel eke divshi..
Balagli tyani aasha hi..!
Tyani tumhala dila jo
Tyachi kimmat keli ka aajvar koni!!

Chuka tharlya mothya..
Ashvasane khoti..
Janmchi gaath bandhun..
Deha kapila tyacha tumhi..!


Kathin paristhit hi tyani japle tumha..
Paan lamb thevile asa aarop thokla..
Swathla savarta savarta ..
Gamavle tyane
 jichya karita kele praytna manani!


Aaj hi toh sangu ichito tyachi gatha..
Aaikun na ghe..tyachi Radha!
Roj roj tyache dole shodi..
Tichya javli jatya vaata..!


Samajle tyani saryana kadhi..
Paan aaj tochi ekta ladhi..
Sath deu janma bhara sathi..
Ase vadavnare hi gele pathi..!

Shevatchya swashala hi..nahi hakla
 Ladhta ladhta paar to thakla..


Aakher tyacha shikaar jhala..!!!
Aakher tyacha shikaar jhala..!!!


-its SR...

Premachi Pariksha...

Abhala chi asavi maya...
Abhala chi chaya.


Uunhat kiti hi taapla tari
Premacha paus..
 dhuvun kadhe dukha saari..!


Kharya premachi pariksha gheto hari..
Hoto jivacha khel tovari..
Divsa na sukh..
Ratri dole bhari..
Pan..
Muun jyache khare
Tochi deto saath janmabhari..!!


Chukana nahi chukla Shiva hi..
Dhada pasun kela kantha vegla..
Pan jhala Ganpati tayar tyatun hi...!
Manus tar lahan pyada tyacha..
Chukatun shikto asa roop yacha..!


Shabda khote asu shaktat..
Pan dole bhavna rakhtat..
Shvasatun kalto trass tyacha
Naka hou deu aant Vishwasacha...!


Jaar muun khare he kalle tumhala
Mag ka olkhale nahi tumhi tyala..!


Naka o sodu saath tumhi tyanchi..
Jyanchi katha jivapadd premachi.. !
Paristhiti vait aslya..
Chuk kay bara tyachi..!!
Lokana maanaa ne japa..
Manna n napa..
Jivas jiv lava..
Dole bolale ka khota aajvari..!!


-its SR

Emotions Of A mindless Freak..!! :) :(

A day when she held his hand...
 Was the day when nothing was planned.
Trust was the base and eyes were the case..
 It took time to fall in love..

But once he was...

 He was, Is and Will be.. Is what he planned.

Beautiful were the days..

 When she rested her head on his shoulders

Those days... when both smiled looking at each other

for no reason..!

Days..when they held each other in their arms..

..Sleepless nights..dreaming what the others doing..

..Moments when they stared at each others unfunny jokes..

and when she grabbed him..all her fear drowned and dried..!

They faced all problems with a mighty heart and

he supported her in all her darks..as she lost her loved ones
 at an early start..

And he knew how it feels when they part..!

He remained with her in her bads..

her acts of craziness, sometimes disliked..

But used to melt his heart..

Seven years later... relation had talled..

It reached a point of satiety...

And had a fall..

Misunderstandings rose..and all were gross !!

Some of his..some of hers..
Accumulated a "SUM"

Totaled, Disturbed, anguished was he..

when she called it off..!!
More bad..more worse..when his trusted friend added to the toll !!

Health ruined..

Minds ruined..
Friends fell apart..
Panicked..Hit..Frustrated and bend..

no one there to help him mend !

Breathless, fear and trauma..he had it all..!

Mistakes were inevitable..and he made some more..
He felt the guilt..but no were to re-build..!
In the process..failed to realise its not just him..
but also she..who's hurt to the core..!!

He made many attempts..but all in vain..

Tried to calm..but still in pain !!
He cried..sobbed..laughed..frowned..he made her smile

Just to know all that was lame !

Love at its purest form was when they had
 held each others hand..
But today hes a culprit if he takes that stand..!!


True love never dies..is what he feels..
and still believes even when she has left !
He wont budge form the trueness of his feelings..
neither has he forgotten the promises they made..
Nor will he forget the memories they shared..

If love was ever true, will make its way back..

 and living with a hope is better
than calling it untrue and daily die..!!

-Rahul Sinnarkar

p.s.: I used sign as ''-its SR''...but its not ''its'' its ''He''..an emotional mindless freak..!

Dont give up !

We humans always want it to be simple...ie.everything has to be done in simple way! We find ease in letting things go rather letting people go off our lives when we think they arent matching or running parallel with our thoughts.


I wouldn't be surprised if tomorrow our country is competing with western countries Divorce rates! "Impatience", "Misunderstandings", "Assumptions", "I AM RIGHT ATTITUDE", "ME", "I".... !! Where do we think the world will lead to if these are the words put in use often.
Would like to share a story...
There was a couple (still exist..😊) who were poles apart...both loved each other but both were hurt due to each other cz of some reasons. Reasons are many if they wanted to break up. And solutions are many if they wanted to stay together.
Easy way to get rid of all the hurt and suffering is to cut the person down. Another way is to scratch your brain and think of all the ways that can lead to a happy ending or rather a happy beginning. They selected the route two and stayed happily ever after. LOVE was their key now.


But the other couple selected the route one. One amongst them broke off. Both remained hurt..they thought it would be easy to move on. But soon realised that its very difficult to move on with some one esle with the same purity and same level of love. But they found it apt 'cz they felt they had lot of difference's.They didnt even attempt to work it out. No communication..no discussion oriented towards how to mend things. Both entered a new relation..initial years were great and again there was a downfall. Now each of them felt wish i would have worked on my earlier relation though it would have taken time to mend things it could have been sorted as each one of us knew about each others plus and minuses'. They lived happily ever after adjusting their lives to each others needs and requirements in a hope that things will be as great as earlier. HOPE was their key to life now.


Point here is...nothing is permanent in life except change. The former couple accepted their mistakes.. Learned from the downfalls they had and supported each other in their goin forward. Both were aware about each others short comings and strengths...goin forward they never had to utilise their time in understanding each other rather they had to utilize it for execution of full proof plan.


The couple in the latter part failed to realise that same issues can be repeated moving forward. The found an easy way out but got caught in same trap again with nothing in hand but to adjust with each other as they were married. They had an option of divorce but that would have put a dark spot on their image in society. So a known devil is better than an unknown. Hehe.


To conclude i will say is as the product has a life cycles so does the relation. It goes from embryo stage to full maturity...and then it loses its share. So either change the product or keep
upgrading same adding some innovative features into it. Ex.Sony TV..came with LCD's..saw a downturn..upgraded to LED..then Bravia..then Bravia X-Reality..then Triluminous display..! But still they are Sony TV..! Lame example it may seem but if u relate well to your life then very useful too. Relation too needs constant upgradation at its every maturity phase. Dont let it off your hands. Finally its all about your love and for your love. This effort is trifle. Make your relationship so strong that it sustains heaviest of the blow. That's when you can say you ever had loved some one truly.


-Its SR


check the link: A good article on how todays generation goofs up dating as they are themselves confused with love and infatuation.
http://www.scoopwhoop.com/inothernews/we-are-doing-it-wrong-yo/
 

We the stereotype'd' !...time to change.

This article or my write up is an open discussion laid before both "today's" parents and youth.Well, we have seen that in our Asian culture, more specifically Indian Culture, majority of the families want their kid to get the best of education and and in his early twenty's land up in a job of 'their' choice.


What parents forget here is that likes and passions of every individual need not be same. Though they claim to be their bio-logical parents(claim-most of them are!) does not mean that their kid should inherit the same likes and passions that they behold.There would be many questions that an individual may confront at his late teens or early twenty's. Some of them be like-

What makes them so overbearing and watchful?

Why are they not ready to let teenies change course from their traditionally laid down trails?

Why they are so obsessed with their own format of living life and thinking pattern?

Why only education in form of written and oral tests are given primary importance even when the kid might not have a distinct liking towards it?

Aren't there any other ways a child can make his career?

Should be we ''Trained'' to achieve the pre-decided goals or should we be given an opportunity to lay our own?

Why working in McDonald's or any other retail outlet while pursuing your professional studies is looked down?

Why do they want us to think about the society all the time..be it with respect to our social circle,profession,our activities,our hobbies,love,marriage...!!?


Life at home sucks for you, and you can't wait until you can get out of the house.But is that always possible! As shown in films..the hero gets his backpack..a set of lenses and his pro cam and stays separately..turns out to be a good photographer and Whooow!!His life is set!

We see him doing it and we think we too can! But then there's are difference in Reel life and Real life.However, i don't deny the fact that many a times, if we take a right call, we might have the privilege of being heroes of our own life! Again, taking a call is dependent on several factors.Major ruling factors are our parents and 'their' society..and their values and their morals and their upbringing...and their preachings..and their care..and their love..and their expectations..and our mamis..mamas..uncles..aunts..grandpas/mas...!! WHERE ARE WE?

I had read an article sometime back. Sharing an excerpt:

Parental Tactics Of Coercion
The study delves deep into the effects of parental use of psychological control towards their teenage child. This psychological control was seen to incorporate tactics, such as inducing feelings of guilt in the child when he/ she did something that the parents thought was wrong, temporary withdrawal of love as a punishment tool and trying to foster anxiety within the child, in addition to other psychologically manipulative tactics aimed at getting desired behaviors from kids.

The research team felt that while these tactics would ensure a particular behavior from the child, by pressuring him into a decision that's in line with his parents' will, in the long haul, it would only reduce his ability to make his own judgments. So, even though parents tend to be happy when the child toes the line, what they fail to realize is that they may have just killed an opportunity to help the child learn, practicing self-direction and independent decision making. In future, this could make the child an easy target for coercion and manipulation.

By sharing this article i don't mean to demean Indian culture or the societal morals and ethics.But here i wish to focus on 'Law of Individuality' which clearly states that every individual is different when compared to other. This law will solve majority of problems if understood properly.

Often in the context of 'Independent Thinking' we forget that 'Independent' doesn't mean 'Self' or 'Selfish' or 'Self Centered Thinking or Self oriented Approach'. What it actually means is considering all the other factors and situations around how one should perceive, how one should reciprocate and how to take controlled measures!

A simple example would be when in a relation partners experience a downfall or loss of interest there could be multiple reasons associated with it.But during those times we only keep our own self in the center and keep thinking of all the things that have affected us! Here we tend to ignore our faults and we get more defensive in our approach.Sometimes we simply deny our responsibility towards our partner. When asked for the reasons we tend to use word 'ME' or 'I' forgetting that relation is all about 'US', 'WE'..One partner though is ready to sort all the things the other is reluctant saying that all wrongs have had a major impact on there life forgetting that impact is felt both ways. And then they wish to think 'Independently'. Here's the entire mess... 'cz in such situations independent thinking often gets restricted to one self. The thought process gets so self oriented and self centric that all negativeness get into your mind. You start seeing and assuming things which actually might be very different than what you perceived. In simple terms in such cases 'Independent Thinking = Thinking about your own self'. This is mostly the reason for break up stories.

If u ask me..every problem in this world can be sorted with communication. This is where most of the people get confused. Self respect, Pride and Ego are the main tools that make you lose a relation even where both the partners are aware of their love for each other.


We need to change our mindset. We need to understand that society plays an important role because that's the one who help us maintain our civilized status.If every single individual forgets what is actually meant by freedom and independentness then we might not be civilians in the making rather we might turn in to wild animals wandering down the streets. Stereotyped thinking must be stropped. Independent decision is must but thinking independently from all the sides and angles, by a different perspective, thinking into depth of why things are the way they are..and then coming to a rational solution is how the flow should be. Imposing decisions is wrong but the decision already taken is that really apt..!! that's what is to be thought off. Taking help and getting opinions from friends, elders and well wishers is always a welcome move. However, your mind should be open enough to also listen to the mistakes or criticisms that you get.We love listening when others tell us how right you are and dislike when we are shown the dark side of us. This is where we need to understand that 'an err is to human' and if we keep denying our mistakes and do not change the course of our action we are the ones who are putting every life at stake including our own!


Whether one has to work with McD's as a steward/captain while pursuing his education should be thought of from all the angles. Is it really required for him to work? Does that add value to his persona or his skills? how will this job benefit? How will he concentrate on his studies? Has he planned for the future? Where does he see himself after 3-4 years? Will this give him a sense of responsibility? and many more thoughts and questions will get answered if you try to find solutions rather than thinking "Why should my son/daughter work as a waiter in some food joint?". We have to get out of our own drawn peripheries and the ideologies that we tend to follow since ages. We need to broaden our outlook and start seeing world from a different perspective. Most Indians, however qualified they might be, still prefer 9-5 job rather than taking a different approach or thinking about being an Entrepreneur or having a own set up. A qualified engineer thinks that hes only good at engineering because his mindset is groomed in such a fashion that he finds it difficult to even think that he can or has an ability to put up his own business!! A Chartered Accountant should either teach, practice or land up in a job is what the trend says! Why cant he have his chain of hotels? Why can he float his own company? Why cant he be an entrepreneur? Why cant he be a dancer or singer!!!!! But we never feed our mind or look at things with different perspective! And when we do think differently all we think is of all the hurdles that we can face while stepping into a different venture and we stop there without even giving a second thought to all the solutions that lay ahead of us..all we require is to take one step ahead !!


AIB Roast is considered vulgar and political parties made a cry of it..! Did anybody even bother when parliamentary members were caught red handed watching porn inside the holy place of decision making for the country!! Does anybody even bother when our country is run by a bunch of politicians where majority of them don't even hold a basic qualification! But we have time to argue on a show that clearly had a adult certification.We have time to burn down shops selling Valentines Cards..carrying boards and hoardings in English..we have time to argue whether its 'Bombay' or 'Mumbai'..we changed the names but majority of articles and sections in Constitution of India still are adapted from British Law. We have time to argue on whether Sunny Leone is changing the face of Indian Cinema by making it more porno than acting! But nobody talks of increasing rapes and moral blindness of our Society...and there are many more such incidences. Again a play of narrow mindset and not being receptive where its required. People objecting feel that they have taken a matured step. Well, even Einstein or any great scholar hasnt yet defined what maturity is!


To conclude all i will say is we as a individual and as a team should make effort to look at things and situations with different perspective. When we will broaden horizons only then we will be receptive towards others ideas and thinking patterns.We will only then understand the purpose of their act, the words said, decisions taken and effort made. Think Independently without turning a blind eye and a deaf ear on others thoughts, ideas, emotions and the facts.Harmony and peace only then can be obtained.


-Its SR