A False Committment !!

Somewhere in my mind...i still can see,

 A road to the future,

But nowhere it leads...

It was immortal love tat had unfold,

But now its pulseless for the reasons...

 Beter if untold.

Crushed are my efforts..

Broken is my Heart..

Ceased is the excitment..

If we still be together..

Wudn't this be called a False Committment !

My heart isn't a toy,

 which can often be broken and mend...                                        

I dont weep.. but i too feel the pain..

 When things go beyond control..

And nothing appears sane..

 Still if we be together..without any intent..
Wudn't ths be called a False Committment !

Caught in a puzzle..

Whether to compromise with life..

 or listen to my instincts..

Wish God be here, to give me some hints !

Lost is my way.. 

Why is it..for all, i have to pay !

Lets just depart..

 Is all left to say !!

Somewhere in my mind..i still can see,

 a road to the future..

But nowhere it leads..

Ceased is all the excitment...

Then why be in such a False Committment !!

-its SR

Anjaani Rahoon Pe...chalte jana hai *

Anjaani mulkate thi..

Anjaani ye baatein thi ,

 Hum dono ka...ye milna ,

Chupke Chupke Nazreein Churana..

Kyun aisa lagta hai...

 Ab in Anjaani Rahoon Pe...chalte jana hai.

Anjaani wo Aankhein thi..

 Anjaani wo saanse thi ,
Na jane kyun wo raheen itni pyari thi..
Ab to bas..
in Anjaani Rahoon Pe..chalte jana hai..

Anjaana ye deewanapan,
Anjaana ye awarapan...
Hum dono ka ab ye apnapan...
 jaise Dilon ke khilne Ka Mausam..
Tum ko to bas ab pana hai..
 in Anjaani Rahoon Pe...chalte jana hai..

Anjaani ye raheen thi,
Anjaani thi ye manjile..
 Anjaana tha ye pyaar ka safar...
Tum aanjaani hokar bhi..
 kyun lagti ho meri humsafar..

Tum ko to bas ab..pana hai
in anjaani rahoon pe chalte jana hai....
Haan!!..in Anjaani Rahoon Pe~ Chalte Jaana Hai ....*

-Its SR

I LOVE ..MONSOOOONNSS !!!

Sky so Bright and Blue,

 Has now changed its Hue..

Slowly has got an azure lay

 and in no time will turn Blae.

Sky seems to be mackerel,
 As if filled with Carol..
OHh! They are clouds adrift..
 With a WaterSpout in their rift.
M sure...this is nothing less-
 Than A GOD's GIFT.

Came down the rain drops

 Drizzle Mizzle,which..

Bought life and its abode out of

 Sun's Sizzle...

Aura of the soil so sweet and fresh..

 Wafted by the cool breezes Grace.

Ambience looked so Green

 and made our Heart Serene..

It was really an exqusite sight,

 Which reminds me ,that this is nothing...

But The Work Of HIS MIGHT.

-Its SR..

My Life..Come Back To ME...!

Looking amidst those clouds ...

I frisk for you..Oh! baby were are you?

 Do you remember those paths-

  trespassed together...

Even when our bodies grooved to beat later.

We were hand in hand..

and had fun in sand..

on those beaches and shores...

All wanting for more!!

Breeze kept us kissing..

as we watched Sun melting..

And then into each other,our eyes went sinking...

we were so lost in our clinch,

that we never realised the world at a inch..

For me the world Was 'YOU'-

and for you it was 'ME'.

Doors of memories will never close,

how much i miss you, when will you know?!!!

Days pass like years..

  and years by prayers...

And I remember our memories

   in silent Tears.

Why can't those lovely times...

 return back for ever!!

 I detest myself,for I let you go...

But i'm befuddled..

   If I be tame or be a besieger..

For HE's the only Creator and also

    my LOVE Seizure...

Ohh baby!! come back to me...

  we'v rest of the world yet to see..

oh!please come back to me...

   i'm living with a hope of those

lovely times to return...

my Life!return back forever...

forever..and forever n ever..!!

-it's SR..

WHY DID U LEAVE ME ALONE??

Why did u lev me alone...

     u know...

It just happened in a matter of Spark..

Ohh!!

Tel me why?Y did u lev me lonely..

    I feel detached from my life..

Now,even my Dreams are Dark!!
   M in Pain...Ya!!
And people have started calling me Insane..


  All my words seem profane
  All my efforts are in Vain!!


Crumbled are my Thoughts...
Mumbled are my presence..
What has gone so wrong??
  Tell me...tell me Why??


Don't i'v a life of my Own,
  Or shud i Lead it..
Only As u'v Shown..
please baby..Understand Me!!


When I turn back time,
 Everythng seemed so fine..
And it still can be-
i know..its Jus a matter of Time!!


Teme why did u lev me lonely...
  When i needed you the most..
It seems as if evethngs lost..
Ohh!!m in Pain ya!!


But No matter the distance..
  My hearts pure,
And m gona luv u,
Till my last breath..for Sure.


Leme burn in hell or trail in heaven...
   My dreams will be dark
Till i get you back..


I know..Again Our Love will spark..
Its again gona be a clean Start..


-it's SR.

TImE to RuLe-INsTinCTs..



LemE BreAK FREe...



Let me be free..

  Dont wana be any clutches...

let me be 'ME'..

  Says my heart and blood gushes..

I wana fly with my open wings..

 but 'm longing for a chance

       To do my own good things...


Dont stop me please..
  leme jus break free..
Let me be 'ME'
  says my heart and blood gushes..


Let me feel the Fresh Winds..
  and leme unlock the doors..
          to my DREAMS..
'Coz now its the time for me..
To Rule My own INSTINCTS...


Let me Be real..
  without any fear..
'Coz its My Life
and to me its dear..


Let me be free..
Dont wana b e in any clutches..
 Leme be 'ME'
   says my heart....
and blood gushes...


-its SR

CHARITY BEGINS AT HOME.....rightly said but negligibly implemented.

It seen that in practice development means material advancement. All the great thoughts about developing the finer aspects of human beings are not translated into reality while such developments have apparently made life easier. They have thrown up many new, serious and urgent challenges before mankind such as the phenomenal rise of human population, demographic transition etc….

Same is the case with ageing. An individual may age with grace or he may turn  bitter with frustration.

As goes the adage:

“Some wines mature and become mellow,

Others turn sour and decay.”

A person’s age depends on his outlook of his life. Well as a graph of physical process, aging is a natural process. However, at what age is person called old? In this sense, a person would be said to be old when he is unable to function efficiently.To put it in humour..

"Old age is where couples switch off their lights at night for economical reasons...rather than for romantic ones.."

:) Jokes apart..

              

Old age is an irreversible part and biological phenomenon one that eventually terminates with the end of life of a human being. That is more like science.. but in our daily life where attitudes, behavior, values, aesthetics rule, there is more that can be defined of  an old age. It is one experience that cannot be had otherwise. When the trails of experience and wisdom have made a lasting impression on human itself, one can say he is never out of it. It is a gift, which no one can refuse to take.

However, the transformations brought in our society sometimes make us scare of this stage.However everyone of us has to face it one day.
  

Using Blog as a platform..i would like to bring to your notice few problems that Elderly people face today..

1.Elder physical Abuse:

Elder abuse is a growing problem. While we do not know all of the details about why abuse occurs or how to stop its spread, we do know that help is available for victims. Concerned people, like you, can spot the warning signs of a possible problem, and make a call for help if an elder is in need of assistance. Elder abuse is a term referring to any knowing, intentional, or negligent act by a caregiver or any other person that causes harm or a serious risk of harm to a vulnerable adult. The specificity of laws varies from state to state.

2.Sexual Abuse:

 Defined as non-consensual sexual contact of any kind with an elderly person. Sexual contact with any person incapable of giving consent is also considered sexual abuse. It includes, but is not limited to, unwanted touching, all types of sexual assault or battery, such as rape, sodomy, coerced nudity, and sexually explicit photographing.

3.Emotional or Psychological Abuse:

Emotional or psychological abuse is defined as the infliction of anguish, pain, or distress through verbal or nonverbal acts. Emotional/psychological abuse includes, but is not limited to verbal assaults, insults, threats, intimidation, humiliation, and harassment. In addition, treating an older person like an infant; isolating an elderly person from his/her family, friends, or regular activities; giving an older person the "silent treatment;" and enforced social isolation are examples of emotional/psychological abuse.

  4.Nursing home abuse:
 

Eye witness accounts and surveys have sadly shown that nursing home abuse and neglect is a serious problems. Generally the causes for such abuses reported are:

 Ø   Stressful working conditions, especially staff shortages..

 Ø   Staff burn out,

 Ø   Inadequate staff training etc.

5.Neglect:

 Neglect is defined as the refusal or failure to any part of a person’s obligation or duties to an elder. Neglect may also include failure of a person who has fiduciary responsibilities to provide care for an elder (e.g. pay for necessary home care services) or the failure on the part of an in-home services provider to provide necessary care.

Neglect typically means the refusal or failure to  provide  an elderly persons with such life necessity as food, water clothing, shelter, and other essentials included in an implied or agreed-upon responsibility to an elder.

Abandonment is defined as the desertion  of  an elderly persons by an individual who has assumed responsibilities for providing care of an elder, or by a persons with  physical custody of an elder.

6.Abandonment:

Abandonment is defined as the desertion  of  an elderly persons by an individual who has assumed responsibilities for providing care of an elder, or by a persons with  physical custody of an elder.

To deal with those problems many NGO's, Social Activists and Our Government has taken steps.But are we so immature and stone hearted that we require some mediocre to take those steps...!!!Are we so immune to our own parents feelings and emotions that we just put them or get them admitted into Senior citizens or Elderly people care centre.If others can create a HOME FOR AGED..then why cant we for our own PARENTS..!!

 ..THEY WERE THE ONES WHO TAUGHT US HOW TO WALK..

     NOW ITS OUR RESPONSIBILITY TO HELP THEM WALK THEIR LAST STAGES...

  LET US STAND UP AND SHOULDER OUR DUTIES AS OBEDIENT CITIZENS AND AS OBIDIENT CHILDREN..
                                          .. "CHARITY BEGINS AT HOME"..
THEN WHY NOT ENSURE THE SECURITY OF OUR OWN PARENTS FIRST.AND THEN CLAIM GOVERNMENTS FOR THEIR SECURITIES LIKE TRIPARTITE PACKAGE OF UNIVERSAL SOCIAL PENSIONS,FREE HEALTH CARE AND NON-DISCRIMINATORY LAWS...

"AFTER ALL..THEY WEREN'T BORN OLD..AND NO ONES THERE TO STAY YOUNGER FOREVER..."

-its SR